I quickly looked at the situation and found that in addition to two staff members, the presence of the other two men and four woman Asians. Speaking no English, led by skilled, working with Jia Kelin put red in the face, is a man, leaving a small flat, about fifty years old, right? The expression on his face resentment injustice, his mouth has been repeated:.! No eat, no drink, he will die At least, give him a shot Jia Kelin see me, in case of reinforcement, said: "ah, very good ! You are just in time! "So for me a brief description of the situation again.
It turned out that all six patients with 200 wards Mr. Chang (non-real name) family. Headed by his eldest son Hansen (non-real name), the other is two sons, two daughter and two daughters. 80 old Mr. Chang is the end of suffering from pancreatic cancer, five days ago when the oncology ward in turn, has shown a semi-conscious state; although sometimes a little sober time around, they are all sleeping when the majority. Because he apparently on the verge of death, tranquility disposal team is to try to make the patient comfortable, do not feel pain. In addition to timing for him to stand up, changing diapers, there is no set meal for him to the kitchen, and no drips.
Jia Kelin said to me: For the disposal winter fashion 2013 of the team through an interpreter who once explained to his family; the families was noncommittal, did not express particular views, however, and later, almost every day to request Mr. Chang-fed, drip. Nurses tried to explain before dying do harm, but not understanding the families, and make the team feel very helpless. Later, the family continued to protest after invalid, simply winter fashion 2013 bring food from home, family, and a man to lift Mr. Chang, a strong Bankai his mouth, poured another person winter fashion 2013 trying to fish porridge or soup like they think very nutritious food. Of course, most of the time, all to no avail, and soon they poured something from the old man's mouth open with flow.
I look Jia Kelin, she is easy to hear the tone by Hansen to his anger, but also somewhat anxiously for me hesitantly. I originally was impatient person, however, all these years of experience and learning in the field of peaceful, let me patience home adept in martial arts. On the one hand the same way his father eager to pamper the patient's family, on the one hand they want to rush to a better understanding of the whole situation, but for the most proper disposal, so I have patience, the spoken words above, repeat, and took a few days before his death a few years ago my father's case as an example, to tell him I was there with him the same cares, and later, because it was my father never had peace of physician training, I ask Taiwan is peaceful pioneers Professor Zhao Keshi . She does not just stop feeding us immediately, and the physician will recommend bit removed; her reason is what you want me to tell Jia Kelin Hanson.
After listening to me say, Hansen relented, however, he asked: "? Is my father not feel hungry or thirsty you" I clearly explain the need for professionals to make 白汉森 him peace of mind, so he Jia Kelin listen to the words of the translation. Jia Kelin know my intentions, it has been said many times it slow and then said again, then again and remind them that if my father was afraid winter fashion 2013 the lips or mouth too dry, you can use a cotton swab dampened with water to help him look moist. She said slowly, Hansen should understand. Then she patted empathy Hanson's shoulder, went on to say: "We do understand your child, having left his father suffer winter fashion 2013 mood we know you all have done our effort, please you also believe that we also have been exhausted can not let your father suffer. It seems, the old man should be comfortable, not painful hour of waiting the arrival of my son. Now .... "if winter fashion 2013 not finished, another 200 under the tutelage of a nursing ward hastily come out and gently told Hansen said: "! Time to; you go with a younger brother and sister and dad say goodbye."
Hansen and other family members one, and everybody poured winter fashion 2013 ward, and I have followed winter fashion 2013 them Gu Kelin, light step with the past, 站在房门口. Suddenly winter fashion 2013 the whole ward full of people, they separate beds on both sides, coincidentally to pull the upcoming departure of his father's hand. I saw the old man with his mouth open, big mouth spitting gas; Weibi eyes, a look of calm. Hansen and his brother choked winter fashion 2013 back tears and seemed to be reborn in the face with his father looked Youse; several female family members sobbed ... hide their faces. And other loved ones die scenario, in my mind from the emotional anti-metastasis (countertransference): I recall a variety of their own when their parents passed away. While sad, I quietly withdrew ward, garden and walked alone into the air.
Until after the calm thoughts, I went back to the ward. I saw Hansen and other family members gathered in the hallway, as if like to discuss the matter. See me, they all came to me and I have to thank the translation and commentary. My condolences to them in addition to outside, but also grateful to them, especially when they give me the opportunity to learn of your father. Hansen said he also learned more people will die without food, truth, hope the team will not blame their ignorance and recklessness. I quickly told him and learn, not learn the truth, not to mention their important ideas for food, water, and is also human nature, but it does not apply to the dying patient; of course, I also tried to comfort him without a team definitely understand blame them.
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